Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which makes an external vibrator the most useful toy you can own — and the easiest place to start. Choose by how you like to be touched: The Ripple is soft, ribbed silicone with 2 intensities and 8 patterns; The Linger slips over your finger so it moves like your own hand; The Draw uses air suction for a pulsing, hands-off sensation.